Take 12 seconds to think about the title….“Wanting to be wanted…”
How far has this phrase taken you outside of the desires, protection & decrees that God has planned for your Life?
Personally, I’ve subjected myself to the absolute lowest forms of private thoughts, beliefs & actions. Most note-worty, I’ve willingly subjected myself to scum-like treatment from others, because I wanted to be wanted.
The enemy is the master manipulator. The devil takes what he knows is a weakness & he attempts to magnify that thing in your life. If you possess issues of low self-esteem, low-self worth &/or improper self-perception, the enemy will bring situations & people in your life to fuel your inadequacies. satan (lowercased intentionally) does this in hopes that you will compromise who God SAYS you are. The devil wants you to compromise your Godly standards in an attempt to satisfy that insatiable, spiritual hole that continues to leave you depleted, year after year. –In negative situation after negative situation.
We cannot expect people with wrong motives to genuinely care about us &/or our well-being when their desires & actions contradict the very nature of WHO GOD IS. (You MUST read 2 Timothy 3: 1-8)
THEIR ACTIONS ARE TELLING YOU THE TRUTH ABOUT WHO THEY ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do not continue to make excuses for their evil ways. Separate your selves from the spiritual & emotional lie. (Psalm 119:115).
***(This does not apply to those who are married. Divine Godly, Pastoral council must be sought for marital reconciliation & restoration.)
There is only ONE SPIRIT of GOD (Ephesians 4:4-6). GOD is LOVE (1 John 4:8). TRUE LOVE is considerate & compassionate. Love is thoughtful & Love constrains (2 Corinthians 5:14). Accept the truth that God is allowing you to see about that person or those people. COME to the end of the knowledge & allow truth-application to take hold so that you can be made free. There will be no God-deliverance without your willing Godly-obedience.
We must stop the cycle of circles, where we receive emotional neglect/abuse & spiritual disregard. The cycle of circles is caused from the fear of being alone, coupled with lack of faith in God's Word. Believing the lie(s)is killing your spirit slowly; THIS IS THE DEVIL’s AIM! (John 10:10)
Decide TODAY: I will not want to be wanted to the point where I will allow someone to disvalue or use me, ever again! Drop that spiritually inconsiderate, dead weight (Hebrews 12:1). Take ownership of your decisions. Ask God to forgive your past doubt (Hebrews 11:6). Forgive yourself. Move forward, not ‘move on’. Let the tears fall. Cry out to God for help (Psalm 46:1). Draw near to Him (James 4:8). And as you walk away in faith, you will begin to see the Light in your Life growing brighter.
…Let the detox begin!